“Look at yourself! You went to law school. You never took the bar. You went to business college. I can’t get you near the office. You studied languages you don’t speak, instruments you don’t play. You have a series of girlfriends you never see more than twice. Do you not see a pattern here? You’re a grown man, David. Finish something!”
Linus Larrabee to his playboy brother in a scene from our favorite rom com, Sabrina. David had proposed to the latest love of his life but was having second thoughts: “I’m not ready to make this kind of commitment!”
“She’s a millionaire, David, and a doctor. She won’t be a burden!” said Linus.
No doubt, no doubt at all, we are witnessing a generation of David Larrabee’s when it comes to marriage. Fewer and fewer young men have the courage to “pop the question” and make good on lifetime commitment.
But commit-a-phobia happens in spiritual life too. Maybe the rise of the seeker movement, where everything in the church is tailored to the consumerist whims of the latest generation, has contributed or maybe it’s just a symptom. But you know it’s real when pastors say, “I’m haunted when I look into the eyes of my congregation and realize they are only two weeks away from leaving for another church.”
Psalm 119 reminds us of the power and potential, the risks and rewards of commitment to God’s word and God’s way. The psalm is unique in scripture, a 176 verse Hebrew alphabetic acrostic masterpiece of devotion to the “word of God and the God of the Word” that interweaves precepts with prayers, and praise with petition.
Six verses stand out against the backdrop of recent events that speak to the rewards and risks of commitment to God’s way. I’ll come to the events in a moment.
First, the commitment:
I have chosen the way of truth;
I have set my heart on your laws.
I hold fast to your statutes, O Lord;
do not let me be put to shame.
Commitment is embracing with our entire being the risks and rewards of a definite path, the snot and vomit of Olympic training for the promise of the podium. It invites the order that the thing committed to imposes on life, the discipline of saying “yes” to things that align with it, and “no” to those that don’t.
Next, the risks:
Though rulers sit together and slander me,
your servant will meditate on your decrees. 
The arrogant mock me without restraint,
but I do not turn from your law. 
Remember the catty remarks emanating from media elite about Vice President Mike Pence’s faith? First, it was his commitment never to meet a woman, other than his wife, for dinner alone. The scorn at his godly stand melted away in the smutty heat of Weinstein, Lauer, and #MeToo. Next it was The View Co-host Joy Behar’s contempt at Pence’s confidence that—like followers of Christ for two millennia—he hears from God.
Indeed, the arrogant mock without restraint. That’s the risk of commitment to God.
Finally, the reward:
I run in the path of your commands,
for you have set my heart free. 
I will walk about in freedom,
for I have sought out your precepts.
Edmund Burke said,
“Men are qualified for civil liberty in exact proportion to their disposition to put moral chains on their own appetites … It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters.”
David Larrabee lives in all of us, but the more we indulge our commit-a-phobia the heavier we forge our chains. Commit to God’s word and God’s way and fly free.
 Os Guinness, The Call, Thomas Nelson, Nashville, TN, 2008. P. 71.
 NIV Study Bible notes.
 The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Ps 119:30–31). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
 The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Ps 119:23). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
 The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Ps 119:51). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
 The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Ps 119:32). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
 The Holy Bible: New International Version. (1984). (Ps 119:45). Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan.
 The Works of Edmund Burke, quoted by John Stonestreet and Brett Kunkel in Practical Guide to Culture, David C. Cook, Colorado Springs, CO. p. 139.